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December 4, 2016

Routine Isn’t Boring… It’s Key to Living Better

Career advice | Routine | Creativity | Creative routine | Wellbeing | Self-care

 

 

I recently took two weeks off from my day job. Why? Well, besides feeling burnt out, I was curious about how the everyday would feel without the routine.

 

No alarm clocks. No commitments. Nowhere to be. It was life on my own terms. The stuff that freelance dreams are made of.

 

I had heard the Internet’s cries to “live a life you love” loud and clear. Routine is the devil, and we should all aim for a life with no set schedule and that elusive “passive income”, right? So I thought I’d try it.

 

Cue day one and, after a nine-hour sleep, I awoke feeling refreshed and, strangely, juvenile. It felt mischievous to be at home watching the rest of the world rush about their everyday business.

 

I went to the supermarket and enjoyed how empty it was. Hello, the perks of being freelance.

 

I went for a walk in the park with a good book and then attempted to work on my blog.

 

It wasn’t even 11am when I started to feel a little isolated. I felt a pang for tea breaks and mediocre small talk. Strange, I thought.

 

I continued.

 

I won’t bore you with the intricacies of my two-week sabbatical, but what I will say is that I expected it to be revolutionary. I expected it to show me that I could be productive and happy and content at home or working from my local coffee shop with no set hours. And, as nice as it was to not have to do my hair or get properly dressed for two weeks, I felt lost.

 

The Internet makes you feel like routine is boring. And that the only life worth posting and tweeting and writing about is the freelance, “solotrepeneur” life. But it’s not.

 

It was only when I saw Laura Jane Williams’ tweet that I got it: Routine is not the enemy.

 

Routine keeps my mental health in check, makes me get out of bed (important) and gives me a sense of belonging that, as humans, many of us need.

 

I need a routine to get shit done.

 

I need a routine to be my best self.

 

A love for routine doesn’t mean you’re boring. Or playing it safe. Or living a little life.

 

No, a love for routine means you’re finding a life that works for you and leading your life the way you know best.

 

Now if you don’t mind me, I’m off to bed. My alarm is set for 6am and I’m more than ok with that.

 


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6 Comments

  • Kate

    I completely agree with you – routine isn’t boring! I love having a routine, it keeps me on track and away from wasting too much time. As Laura tweeted: “Routine is not the enemy!”

    Kate | http://www.petiteadventures.org/

    December 4, 2016 at 11:06 am Reply
  • Sarah

    I totally agree, I’ve thought about going freelance before but realised that it’s having a routine that keeps me sane. I need to get up early, go to the office and see people to feel engaged with life, without that routine I would stay in my pyjamas watching daytime tv and probably end up really depressed!

    December 4, 2016 at 3:11 pm Reply
  • walkiria

    A very refreshing look at routine. It is important to challenge all the pre conceived ideas of what life ought to be and find out what you want and need for your own life, embracing its ever changing flow. It is not easy living from the inside out rather then the outside in but with practice we can ask ourselves why we do things the way we do, challenge all external influences and be more genuine with our choices.

    December 4, 2016 at 6:36 pm Reply
  • Sophia Stone

    SO true! I thrive on a routine and find I am most productive with one in place. If I stray, my day feels off and unorganized. Love this post!

    December 7, 2016 at 3:50 pm Reply
  • Joanne | No Plate like Home

    I agree. I am a very productive person and if I dont have a routine, I won’t be efficient with my time.

    December 8, 2016 at 2:05 am Reply
  • Agnes

    Routine is great for mental health & also creativity. Great essay!

    December 10, 2016 at 7:32 pm Reply
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